Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 8

In Matthew 5:10-12 we read: "Blessed are those who have been persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you and persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of Me. Rejoice and be glad..." Now you may ask, "Bro. Troy, how in the world can I live a less stressed life if I am being persecuted?" Well, it is possible, if and only if you are walking close with Christ. The rejoicing we read is not from the pain but rather from the rewards and testimony that suffering will bring. Jesus is not saying that suffering will follow a believers all their life. Jesus' life, for the most part, was positive; yet one of the signs of being a child of God is persecution. When one walks in meekness, humility, and righteousness, the world will attack; but the stress is minimal when we hold on to God's promise that He would never leave us alone.

In these verses Jesus gives us three characteristics of a genuine Christian. First, they will experience various persecution. Jesus told His disciples that the world would war against them (John 15:18-ff) because of their obedience to follow Him. If your persecution is a result of a big mouth, than this is not godly persecution. The persecution Jesus is talking about comes when one stays firmly on the path of righteousness. Second, a genuine Christian carries an eternal promise. Heaven, is waiting for those who are faithful to the end. Remember, heaven is not the end game, it is only the beginning to life. Third, a genuine Christian will experience a new posture. When facing persecution, the world would say cry, but Jesus says, use this event as a time to rejoice. The word "rejoice" in the Greek is "chairo" which literal means "to leap for joy". Why? Because it is a sign of our authentic relationship with God, as well as it proves our loyalty to Jesus' standards of Kingdom living. So when the Father approves your walk, then your life will be less stressful. Until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Monday, December 15, 2008

Having A Kingdom Attitude 7

We find another pearl for those who seek to live a less stressful life on this earth in Matthew 5:9: "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God." Approved by God are those who have received the ultimate peace of God (salvation, sons of God), and now live to share that peace with those around them. It is not natural to promote peace. The Bible states that sin has made us enemies with God (Rom. 5:10), and our natural tendency is to war and fight (James 4:1-ff). You see, Jesus is the author of peace, the Prince of Peace; and this blessing is only to those who have received His peace and now live to promote that peace (Is. 52:7). Being a peacemaker does not mean being a coward or giving in to everyone and everything. A peacemaker is one whose strength is under control. This may mean holding our tongue or defending truth over wickedness. Peacemaking is a divine work. God is the author, Christians are to be His promoters. Let's see what it looks like to be a peace promoter.

In the book of Acts, we meet a peacemaker, named Barnabas. Barnabas was a Jew, a Levite, a leader in the early church. In fact the apostle Paul was his apprentice. When you study this man you find that in every situation we read his name we learn something about peacemaking. First, he had made peace with God (Acts. 11:22-24). He was saved, full of the Holy Spirit, full of faith. Second, he led others to make peace with God (Acts 13:1-2). He is described as God's spokesman, a teacher of God's Word. Third, he helped others make peace with others (Acts. 9:25-ff; 1344-ff). Whether it was with Paul and the early church or a fight between the Jews and Gentiles, he was always seeking a peaceful unity. Fourth, Barnabas always endeavored to speak the truth in love. He would not compromise His mission (Acts. 13:46-37), his worship of God (Acts 14:11-ff), or God's Word (Acts 15:1-2). Lastly, as a peacemaker his actions promoted encouragement in the Body of Christ. His very name means "Encouragement" (Acts 4:36). So whether it was helping others, preaching, or giving a weaker brother a second chance, he was all about promoting God's Word as well as lifting up his fellow man. Barnabas' example teaches us what we ought to be doing daily as Christians. If we promote God's peace with our fellow man, don't you think you will have a less stressed life? Well, until next time keep walking close to Christ.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 6

The sixth Beatitude say: "Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God." Approved by God are those who have a pure heart. What does it mean to have a pure heart? The word pure in the Greek means clean from pollution, clean from the guilt of sin; sincere and upright. Just in the very definition we see that a pure heart is not what a human can do on their own, but rather what Christ has done and is doing for us. Christ is conforming us to His standard, the standard of holiness. Man, naturally has a wicked heart (Jer. 17:9), and needs a heart transplant - a pure heart (Ez. 11:10, Ps. 51:10). When God gives us His heart, it is kept pure as we walk after the Spirit of Righteousness (2 Tim. 2:22).
Our illustration for this beatitude comes from Luke 19:1-10. In the story of Zaccheus, we are introduced to one of the "worse" figures is society. To a Jew, if anyone is filthy and on their way to hell, the tax collectors were in front of the line. By his encounter with Jesus we see three actions one must take in order to have a pure heart. First, you must seek Jesus. Zaccheus could have made many excuse and even had a valid obstacle (his height) from seeing Jesus, and yet he kept persistent despite personal obstacles and reputation (19:3-4). Second, you must obey Jesus (19:5-6). When Jesus spoke, he quickly followed. He did not question or falter, he received Jesus into his house quickly and with great happiness. Third, you must be possessed by Jesus (19:7-8). After listening to Jesus, we see that Zaccheus purposed to living right. He could not make this change on his own, he was now possessed by Christ. And the way you can know that you are possessed by Christ is the willingness and joy you have to give up your money and possession in order to help others. You see, purity of heart is not only seen in one's faith but also in one's works (James 2:1-ff). When we have Jesus controlling our lives, it is His desire to make us like Him every day. When we walk with a pure heart, then we will truly have a less stressed life. Until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 5

We come to the fifth Beatitude in Matthew 5:7 - "Blessed are the merciful for they shall receive mercy." A popular Roman philosopher called mercy "the disease of the soul." In Roman culture, it was a supreme sign of weakness to show mercy; so you can image the looks on the disciple's faces when they heard that God's blessing is directed connected with mercy. The word "mercy" means charitable acts; it is compassion toward those who have a real need. The residents of the Kingdom are not takers but givers. One who practices mercy not only will have less stress but will also reflect a personal relationship with Christ. For you see, mercy is the very heart of God (Ps. 106:45).

Let us look at several passages in Scripture that will give us a better illustration of what mercy says to we live and do it. In Matt. 18:21-ff, we see that mercy tells others "I forgive you!" These are hard words, and yet they are possible, only by God's strength, to be said to those who have hurt you in the past. When we forgive, it is an act of mercy, and an act that will reduce our stress. In Luke 10:30-37, mercy said, "I love you!" It was the Samaritan who had mercy on the Jewish traveler, beat up and left for dead. In John 8:1-11, we read that mercy says to others, "God's grace is for you!" In this story, it was mercy that said, "I do not condemn you" and it was grace that said, "Go, and sin no more." Have you experience God's grace? If not, all you have to do is cry out for His mercy and forgiveness of sin today? Lastly, in Luke 16:19-ff, we see that mercy says to others, "God is the final Judge!" The rich man showed no mercy to Lazarus on this earth, and yet roles were reversed when both died. We are commanded to show mercy to all men. We are not asked to debate it, analyze it, or dissect it; we are to simply give mercy to all men no matter their behavior toward us. This act can only be done with God's Spirit, and it is the behavior of every resident in heaven. Well, until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 4

Having a Kingdom Attitude means having a less stressed life than those who walk by their own set of rules. Matthew 5:6 gives us another principle for how a Christian is to live in this world - "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness for they shall be filled." When we look at both words "hunger" and "thirst" in the Greek, they describe the extreme of both situations. Hunger means starving to the point of death, and thirst means to be dry or completely parched. Those who have the Kingdom mindset realize that without God's righteousness and obedience to His way, the end result is death. So, a true believer will do all they can to feast and live on God's righteousness alone.

We find an example to this verse in John 6:22-71. Jesus has just finished feeding at least five thousand people. The next day a large crowd makes their way to Jesus, they want to follow Him. As we look closely we see that following Jesus does not mean that you truly hunger and thirst for His righteousness. The people are clearly coming for a magic show not to be true followers of Christ. So, what does it mean to hunger and thirst for righteousness? First, we need to put aside our physical desires (6:22-40). Physical desire by their own definition seek to satisfy self or the flesh. Physical desires try to bring Jesus down to our level. Second, we need to recognize and submit to God's work in our life (6:41-51). God alone calls people to Himself and that work is only accomplished through Jesus Christ. Lastly, we must come to the point in our lives in which we recognize and confess that Christ is all we need. Even when you don't understand the cost, just follow Christ's way. Submit the the Holy Spirit's control even when you can't see the next move. John Piper's famous quote sums this up: "God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied with Him." When we are completely satisfied with Christ Jesus, then our life will be less stressful. Until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 3

Today we are continuing our journey through the Beatitudes and will focus our attention on Matthew 5:5 that reads, "Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth." The teaching of Jesus emphasis a new way of living for those who call themselves followers of Christ. The attitudes laid out in each verse describe the attitude of the residents of heaven. So when we carry a "Kingdom Attitude" as a Christian, you can guarantee yourself "a less stressed life".

What does it mean to be meek? Most associate the work "meek" with "weak", but this is not the Bible's definition of meekness. In the Greek, the word "meek" means mild, gentle, a soft disposition. Meekness is an inward grace of the soul and is a quality that only God can give. This word was used by the Greeks when describing a horse that had been broken. So in other words, meekness is "power under God"; more importantly, "power under God's control". Meekness is simply letting the Holy Spirit lead your life. Often, we as Christians act more like a bull than we do a horse that has been broken. The bull is stubborn and does not want to be ridden, so he bucks anyone who tries to control him. A horse that has been broken can be calm and gentle until called upon to ride into battle or race. The same is with the Christian when we allow God's power (the Holy Spirit), to led us. Our example from Scripture is John 1:19-37 when we look at the life of John the Baptist. His meek attitude was a reflection of an inward quality that followed three principles: First, he realized who he truly was in Christ. He knew his job was not about exalting his ministry, but rather exalting His Savior. Second, he accepted the position Christ had called him to. Unlike uncle Rico in Napoleon Dynamite, John the Baptist was content to be who God had called him to be. He was content with second place. And third, John recognized and pointed others to Christ. A meek heart is the heart of Christ and it is also a heart that seeks to point people to Christ and not self. There is one thing I am sure, if you allow the Holy Spirit of God to control your life, your life will be less stressful than those trying to do things their own way. Well until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 2

We are looking now at the Beatitudes found in Matthew 5:3-12, and pointing out that these characteristics describe the attitude of the residents of heaven. When we carry a "Kingdom Attitude" as a Christian, you can guarantee yourself "a less stressed life". Today let us look at the second characteristic: "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." At first glance you might think that if you cry then God may be happy with you, but this is not the case. It is not about outward tears, it is about inward humility about your position before God. The word for mourn in the Greek is "pentheo" which speaks of the most severe sorrow that a person can have, usually dealing with a death of a loved one. This mourning that Jesus is speaking of is a personal recognition, brokenness, and acceptance of personal sin in one's life. Note, when we truly humble ourselves before God, then we will have true grief over sin and as a result, receive true comfort from God through His Holy Spirit.

One lady in Scripture illustrates this verse very well. In Luke 7:36-50, we read of a notoriously sinful woman who disturbs a party for Jesus in order to seek forgiveness of her sins. Note the three things this woman did to express true Godly sorrow over her sins. First, she eliminated all hindrances (36-37). She knew how awful she was and she also knew how wicked everyone thought her to be, and yet she set aside her pride to fall before the feet of Jesus. She did not care what people thought of her, all that mattered was what Jesus thought of her. Second, she got as close as she could to the Word (38, 44-46). She came broken hearted, in humility, in gratitude and embraced the Word made flesh. Third, she humbled herself and prayed (38,47-50). It is on her knees that she found forgiveness for her sin. Notice these wonderful words that brought true life into this woman's stressful, sinful life: "Your sins are forgiven." "Your faith has saved you." "Go in peace." Wow! Those are wonderful words of life. We must have a humble heart before we are saved, and this heart must continue to beat throughout our Christian life. If this is the case in your life, then your life will be one of gratitude for the mercy and forgiveness of God. Until next time, keep walking closely with Christ.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Having a Kingdom Attitude 1

Today we switch gears just a bit, but we are not going away from the subject of stress. Let's take a look at the Beatitudes in Matthew 5:1-12. Here we see Jesus teaching His disciples about what it truly means to be a Christian. In fact, when you read these verses, you get a sense of what it means to not only be a Christian on this earth, but also the attitude of everyone who calls heaven their home. It is this attitude and these characteristics that not only reflect Christ but will also give us victory in a stressed filled life.

The first blessing has to do with a "poor spirit". The word blessed can mean happy, but more applicable it means "approved by God". Approved by God are those who recognize that spiritually they are bankrupt and need outside help. The word for "poor" in the Greek is ptochos which means completely depended on another for survival. So, the ones who make it to heaven are those who realize that their self-righteousness will give them hell, but the
righteousness of the perfect God/man will give them heaven. Life is more stressful when we try to make it to heaven on our own good deeds. The Pharisees carried this same attitude in Luke 18:9-14. They loved to look at their own works and boast of the fact that they were so good, and yet Jesus condemned their self-righteousness. It was the publican, the sinner, who recognized his position before God as unworthy, and yet humbled himself before God to accept God's mercy and salvation. If I seek to get to heaven by my good works, it will only stress me out each day when I see how little I have done and how much I still have to do. Are you relying on your good works to get you to heaven? What a stressful situation to fine yourself in. All men need to realize how short we miss the mark on our own, and make the decision to humble their hearts and accept the perfect work and righteousness of Jesus Christ. This attitude also applies to we who are Christians, let us daily search our hearts to make sure that we remove all pride that will hinder fellowship with our God. This life is not about us, it is all about bring glory, honor, and power to Jesus Christ in everything we say and do! It is only when we carry this attitude of "poor of spirit" that we truly will live as Christ intended for us to live. Until next time, keep walking close with Christ.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Forgiveness, Oh What A Feeling 5

It is one thing to be forgiven by God, or to struggle with forgiving that family member, friend or even enemy. But have you ever thought about the stress people carry all the time on their shoulders when they do not forgive themselves? Are you one of these people? If we could look to one person in Scripture, who shows us what it means to walk joyfully in this world while not letting his past defeat him or stress him out, that man would be the Apostle Paul. This was a man who persecuted, hurt, and killed followers of Christ. He described himself as the "chief of all sinners." How could this man live in victory when he thought about his past actions? This same question must be asked of us as well - How can I forgive myself?

Well, good news, bad news - (Bad news) It is impossible to forgive yourself on your own, your guilty conscience and pride will not allow it (1 John 3:20). (Good news) A Christian can only forgive themselves when they embrace God's grace, mercy and strength. Let me break down these thoughts a little further. Paul could forgive himself when he realized the power of God's grace (1 Cor. 15:9-10). God's grace gives us a new position, new purpose, and new power. God did something for us that we could not do on our own, and with that work of grace, we can boldly walk in victory from that sinful past. We also see that Paul could forgive himself when he accepted God's mercy (1 Tim. 1:13-17). You see, God's mercy is offered to all unbelievers, whether one accepts it or not. When He died on the cross, mercy was offered for all sin. Now there is a time coming when His mercy toward the wicked will end; but until then, today is a day to receive God's mercy.
But it does not end there, God's mercy continues to flow upon His children. God is so patient with us. God is continuing forgiving us. God is sovereign, what more could we ask for. Oh, friend, you need not walk under the burden of your past sins, you can walk in victory at the cross. And no matter what your past looks like, His forgiveness is sufficient. Go ahead, forgive yourself as He as forgiven you. Until next time, walk closely with Christ.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Forgiveness, Oh What a Feeling 4

The fourth person that we as Christians must learn to forgive may be the hardest and most absurd in the eyes of the world - our enemies. In Luke 6:27 we have this command from the lips of Jesus, "Love your enemies." This seems like the most impossible task a man has been called to do, and truth be told, it is impossible if one is not walking close with Christ. Having enemies is a part of being a Christian (Matt. 5:10-12), forgiving those enemies is a super-natural task. Let me share with you this truth: When God's children forgive their enemies they display God's supernatural strength and legitimize their heavenly relationship.

As we look at Luke 6:27-30, we see several lessons Christ is teaching His disciples by commanding them to love those who hate them. First, when you love your enemies you love the second mile (6:27-30). When someone hits you or takes something from you because of your faith in Christ, we are commanded to let them do so as a testimony of God's strength living in us. Oh friend, this is very difficult, but it can be done only by God's power. The lesson Jesus is teaching is for His children not to hold tightly to material possessions, but hold tightly to Christ and the path of righteousness. If you lose both body and possessions for the sake of Christ, then God approves you (Matt. 5:10-12). Second, by loving your enemies you are living the Golden Rule. Two years ago, the Amish community showed the world what it meant to live the Golden Rule (6:31-34). When their children were executed by a lone gunman, the Amish community rallied around his family to help meet some financial needs they had. Anyone can love their friends, but only a heavenly relationship could love one's enemies. Third, loving our enemies legitimizes our heavenly relationship (6:35). When we endure the persecution and harm from our enemies, there is promised of a real reward and a real relationship. God will truly reward those who forgive the unlovely, and this act is a true sign of being a legitimate and faithful son or daughter of our heavenly Father. When we live this way, not only does our stress levels go down, but also we are living a Biblical theology that believes in a God who sees all and will reward the faithful, and He will be the final Judge. Well, until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Forgiveness, Oh What A Feeling 3

A forgiven heart relieves stress. This statement is true especially when we have experienced the forgiveness that God offers to us. God's forgiveness is our example by which we are to follow. And we are to carry a forgiving heart into every relationship we have, including our family and friends. Today, let me speak for a moment about forgiving your friends. Our example comes from the Bible in the book of Job. Remember Job, he had it all plus God, and yet in a span of moments he lost all his wealth, family, and health. His friends show up to grieve with him, and for a week they do the best thing possible, they say nothing. But after the horror of the moment has passed, the three friends begin to "educate" Job about the reason he finds himself in such a terrible situation - "Job you must have done something very bad, very sinful!"

In every relationship you will learn that the object that produces most of our stress is the tongue. In fact, in this very story we see that God gave Satan permission to bring all these calamities upon Job, and yet the real pain and suffering did not come from the hands of Satan but rather from the tongues of these three 'friends'. From this story we learn to speak in every relationship, including our friends. First, always speak words that can be proven (Job 32:3b). The correction of the three friends seemed plausible, but the reality was they were wrong in their assumption of Job's situation. Second, always speak words that show mercy (Job 32:3). Job was called a hypocrite, a wicked man, and even ignorant by his friends, what would his enemies has said? Job replies that had roles been reversed, he would have encouraged and comforted them with his mouth (Job 16:1-ff). Third, always speak words based on truthful wisdom (Job 42:7-8). The three friends spoke from their own intelligent, but when God comes on the scene he tells them they they have spoken from a foolish heart. They boasted that they were speaking for God, but God did not agree with their words. From this lesson, we can clearly learn how to greatly relieve our stress when we watch what and how we speak to others. Always remember, "Since our words can do more harm than Satan's personal attack, let wisdom, truth, and mercy guide your words." Until next time, walk closely with Christ.

Monday, August 4, 2008

Forgiveness, Oh What A Feeling 2

We saw last time that God's Word is clear that when one accepts God's forgiveness for sin, a burden is lifted, and a once troubled life becomes less stressful; especially when thinking about God's eternal salvation, unconditional forgiveness, and heaven, the home for the child of God. Yet, in this life we daily struggle between the choice of forgiving or unforgiving. Should I forgive my father for what he did to me as a child? Should I forgive the school bully? What about forgiving the co-worker who lied about me in order to take my promotion? Life is filled with opportunities to either forgive or to choose to carry an unforgiving heart; and these moments make their selves known in every relationship we have. Today I will speak about forgiving family members.

Our example in Scripture is Joseph. In Genesis 45:4-8 & 50:15-21, we see what it truly means to forgive. Joseph, a man who had plenty of reason to hate his family and even seek revenge for the way his brothers treated him in his teenage years. Imaged being hated, plotted against, beaten and threatened, and finally sold into slavery by your own flesh and blood. Now image years later, having those same family members at your mercy, how would you respond. Well, a Christian is called to forgive as Christ forgave our wicked acts toward Him. If you have been hurt by a family member, the question is "How do I truly know that I have forgiven ______?" The answer is seen from the life of Joseph. Seventeen years have passed been Genesis 45 and 50, the only difference is that their father Jacob, is dead. The brothers are scared to death that Joseph will now seek revenge, and yet he does not, why, because he truly forgave them from his heart over 17 years ago. Notice these 4 points about forgiveness (these apply to any relationship). You know you truly have forgiven when: First, you react with sorrow when your loved ones hurt (50:15-17). Second, you refuse to play God and take revenge (50:19). Third, you recognize God's purpose for your life in all the pain (50:20). Fourth, you respond with compassion toward those who hurt you (50:21). If you can answer in the affirmative on all four, then you have truly forgiven that one who who truly brought hurt upon you. Notice, you will not completely forget the pain and hurt, but in only God's strength you can overcome it. God has promised to use the event to make you stronger for His glory. Yes, it takes time, but when you choose forgiveness, in time you will be able to see that God was in it all, and that promise alone relieves stress. Well, until next time keep walking close to Christ.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Forgiveness, Oh What a Feeling 1

I have entitled my blog, "Walking with God relieves stress". This statement is so truth. When we walk close with God, what do we have to fear? One lesson that I have learned over time is as His child, when I walk hand in hand with God, there is one lesson He keeps teaching me, and that is the lesson of forgiveness. If you think about it, when one truly begins their walk with God, the walk begins with forgiveness. There was a time in which I recognized that in my self I was not good but rather an "enemy" to a holy, just, and perfect God (Rom. 5:10). How does an enemy of God get unto heaven? How does one clothed in sinful flesh stand in the presence of a holy God? Well, I cannot stand on my own merit before a holy, just, and perfect God! I must walk on my knees in humility, and humble myself before His presence and cry out for His mercy and forgiveness of my sin. Then and only then can I be made whole through His perfect love and forgiveness. Forgiveness meets all humanity at the foot of the cross.

Since my decision to follow Christ, He has freely forgiven me of my sins, and now the burden of sin has been released, and I walk in victory - talk about relieving horrible stress. Yet, the journey does not end there, for our walk is filled with moments, before God and man, in which we will need to seek forgiveness. King David writes in Psalms 32:1-7 of his own personal experience with sin, and the difference between an unforgiven and forgiven heart. Let me note four brief points: First, forgiven sin produces true happiness (32:1-2). Second, unconfessed sin produces great sorrow (32:3-4). Third, confessed sin produces instant relief (32:5-6). Fourth, forgiven sin produces true happiness (32:1-2,7). I can sum up those four points with one sentence: "Immediate confession of our sin to God is a vital part of maintaining a joyful and victorious Christian life." In other words, when we daily seek God's forgiveness from sin that is in our lives, His forgiveness bring instant joy and happiness that in turn will produce a "less stressed life!" Who in this world would not want to feel this way? Until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Friday, July 4, 2008

Stress Has a Useful Purpose (Part 3)

I will conclude this part with the promise found in Scripture, that for the Christian stress can be of great profit. George Sweeting states, "A Christians is like a teabag, he is not worth much until he has been through some hot water." Maybe we can apply that to the Church as well. In James 1:9-12, we see the author encouraging the Church to continue through the stressful season of life in order to receive a great reward. James mentions that there is a profit for the poor man. The profit is the fact that God thinks highly of those who are poor. This does not mean that being poor is an guarantee of heaven, but rather knowing that most Christians at this time were enduring poverty, they were to realize that poverty was only temporary, and in reality they were truly rich from knowing Christ. James also writes to the rich man and admonishes him to walk in humility, because all wealth can vanish in a moment; both poverty and prosperity are temporary. The real reward is the final reward, only given to those who are children of the King.

Stress is very profitable. Yes, we may not see it today, but the real reward will come at the end of this life; and so we are commanded to hold our ground in this battle to the very end. In the end, we will receive the "crown of life", which speaks of eternal life in heaven. Still, until our departure we need to remember the words of the Apostle Paul when he states, "Whatever state I find myself, I will be content. " This is the best attitude to carry if we are going to overcome any stressful situation. If we will see every stressful situation (ones not of our own making) as an instrument by God to make us more mature for His service, than our body, mind, and spirit will be content to run this race to the very end. Until then, let me suggest some help tips if you are feeling stressed out: 1) Take time off. 2) Have a sense of humor. 3) Spend more time with God. 4) Don't isolate yourself, get with people like you. 5) Exercise, help your body. Until next time, keep walking close to Christ.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Stress has a Useful Purpose (Part 2)

As we see in James 1:3-8, for the Christian, God uses those stressful events, events not of our doing, for His purpose and for our profit. In these verses we see four useful purposes of stress: Stress produces endurance, maturity, prayer, and faith. Let me briefly explain each. If you ever ran a marathon, you know that you cannot do it overnight, it is a process that you work at, the same can be said about our endurance or patience in this life. God allows stress to build up and exercise that inner quality or strength, in order for us to make it through the whole race called life.
We also see in verse 4, stress produces maturity. The more someone has been through, the more qualified they they are to help and give counsel to those who have yet to face that valley. God is not satisfied with a halfway job. He wants all Christians to be a perfect work, in other words, He wants mature children. In verses 5-6, we see that stress produces a more perfect and complete prayer life. It is true for most Christians, when we get hammered with stressful life events, we usually fall on our knees in prayer. How many people, after 9/11, began to pray, praying in places and at times they were not use to praying at? God allows stress to help develop our prayer life. Last, stress produces faith (1:6). What the writer is saying here is, "Don't let stress toss you around, but rather let it strengthen your faith." Lack of faith is a sign of immaturity and instability; and God uses the stressful events of life to strengthen our faith and dependence on Him. Romans 8:28 is very true, God will work all things (yes, even the bad ones, and even our unseen stresses), for good for those who love Him. Keep walking close to Christ.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Stress Has a Useful Purpose

If the world was looking at a stress-filled life, most would concluded that stress was a waste of time and energy, and yet Scripture teaches us that although stress is a part of the Christian life, with the right attitude, we will be able to see that God uses the stresses in our lives for His glory. Now, let me make it clear, there are two types of stress, first, there are the stresses brought on by our own making. Second, there are stresses that hit us unexpectedly. Most of our stress is of our own choosing and making. Don't buy a car you can't afford, the interest rate and monthly payment will bring stress. You can be assure that God will not be glorified through your careless purchasing habits. The "stresses" that we find in James 1:2-12, is the stress brought about by an unexpected phone-call, an unexpected pink slip, and unexpected doctor's visit. It is through those moments, that God has promised to walk with us and make us stronger through them.

This week, let me share this fact about stress, stress is a paradox. A paradox is something that seems contradictory and yet it is true. How can we have joy through trials (James 1:2)? Is God telling us to be happy when we lose our job or get cancer? No! We are to find comfort and joy in the fact, that as a Christian, He is walking close to us, and He has promised to work all things for our good (Romans 8:28). Joseph had this attitude after looking back on his most difficult life; "you meant it for evil, but God used it for good..." (Gen. 50:20). What about Job, after loosing all his possessions, family, and health, he states, "But He knows the way I take; when He has tried me, I shall come forth as gold." (Job 23:10) What about Jesus, did Jesus experience a stressful life? Heb. 12:2 - "For the joy that was before Him, He endured the cross..." Yes, stress does bring joy; maybe not in the present, but if we keep faithful to Him, and simply trust Him, He will use those moments of testing to make us more like Him. Stress is a good test. Stress will make you stronger and mature - just ask a diamond or a pearl the value of stress. Well, until next time keep walking close to Christ.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Christians are not immuned to stress

As we saw last week, stress is a predictable problem in every area of our life, and yet for the Christian stress can be overcome by having the right attitude. In 1 Kings 19:1-ff, we find a man by the name of Elijah, not an ordinary man, but the prophet of the Living God who has experience a great victory over the prophets of Baal. In fact, Israel has witnessed the God of Israel pouring fire out of heaven and consuming the altar. Then, over 400 false prophets are killed, followed by the first drops of rain in 2 1/2 years. This is a great time of worship and revival. Yet what follows in the life of Elijah a week of more stress followed by a break down emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally. In O.S. Hawkins' book High Calling High Anxiety, he identifies four sources of stress: forgetfulness, fear, fatigue, and failure. This is followed by five symptoms of stress: detachment, despondency, a defeat mentality, deception, defensiveness.
When Elijah forgot about the past victories and allowed the fear of death to overtake his thinking; and while pouring himself out physically to the people for days, and the end result seems to be a death sentence, it is no surprise that Elijah was overcome by stress. And as stress settles in, then we see this prophet's attitude change from one of victory to one of negativity, even negativity toward's self and God. It is from his own mouth he declares, "God kill me, I don't want to live anymore. Yet, God understood what he was facing and feeling, and God understands what you are facing as well. Notice what God did for Elijah. First, He made him eat and rest. Second, He appeared to him in the most personal way (still small voice). Third, God gave Elijah a new task. He wanted His servant to know that his life was not used up, and that He wanted him to continue representing the true and Living God in this stressful world.
Let me encourage you not to give up and let stress overwhelm your life. God is not done with you. If He was, then He would have called you home. He still wants you to be a faithful witness is this very hostile world. But for now, He might be telling you to refocus your attention to Him. If you are weary and heavy laden, give your burdens to Him and He will give you rest. If you are constantly worrying, God's Word says, "Do not be anxious about anything...but pray" (Phil 4:6). Hold tightly to Is. 26:3, the Christian key for dealing with stress - "You (God) will keep him (God's child) in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on you (God) because he (God's child) trusts in you (God)." Until next time, keep walking with Christ.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Stress is Predictable

Life is filled with stress. In fact, there are no aspects of life that are not affected by the reality of stress. Stress is simply the rate of wear and tear on one's body. Stress has been linked with high blood pressure, heart attacks, depression, immune systems deficiency, asthma, gastric disorders, etc...Stress tears up the body.
Now many Christians think that once they have accepted Christ, then their stress will disappear. But this is the opposite of what the Bible tells us. Sin brought great stress upon mankind. From pulling weeds to giving birth, humans are surrounded by stressful events in their life. Stress will be a part of every human being's life until Christ returns to set us free from this bondage. In Scripture we see that even while Jesus walked on this earth, He faced the stresses of life. In fact, I would argue that Jesus faced the most stressful events of any man during His short ministry, and yet He passed with flying colors, how? In Matthew 14:13 and Mark 6:31 we see that when faced with overwhelming pressure, tragic news, and unfavorable conditions, Jesus went to a quiet place to rest and pray. Even when the most stressful mission lay in front of Him, the cross, He handled this upcoming event by going to the Mt. of Olives and prayed. This is exactly what Christians are commanded to do under stress, "Don't be anxious (or stressed) about anything...but pray." (Phil. 4:6)
Jesus did not run from stressful events, He faced them head on while right in the perfect will of the Father. If you and I are going to make it victoriously through the stresses of life, we must be hand-in-hand with our Father God. No matter what you are facing as a Christian, hide this promise in your heart - "You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is focused on You, because he trusts in You." Is. 26:3.
Next time we will look and see how great of a burden stress can be on the body, mind, and spirit, and even on someone who is serving God with all their heart. We will look at some of the signs and symthoms of stress, and learn through the example of one prophet how God restored him from the point of physical, spiritual, and emotional bankruptcy. Until then, keep walking with Christ.